Jesus lord have mercy on my soul. What happening here? Yuh know we evolve to suit our environment eh. That is why men have longer eye lashes than women. We do too much to ours in the past so evolution decide that we do need them. Doh asked me to prove nuthin eh because…

Like most of our parents, my mother had a saying. She would say “Peter will pay for Paul and Paul will pay for all”. Paying we are and pay we will!!! Another black man is shot. I tried not to address this because this I think is being addressed in multiple ways and in the…

Dear Madame Joy, As a youngster I had a tendency of not brushing my teeth, I also ate a lot of candy which did not help. As a result, in adult hood, I have less than stellar teeth and a few missing teeth. Needless to say my teeth are not very white.  The issue is that I…

Dear Madame Joy, I have a co-worker who is always complaining about his job. Everyday he talks about how much he hates coming into work and how much he hates his managers and it seems to be never ending. I have been at this company for 5 years and it seems that he’s been doing…

Dear Madame Joy, I’ve been married for 3 years and I am very much in love my husband. The issue is that one of his friends keeps hitting on me. He makes suggestive comments to me all the time. He’s even made a couple of these comments in front of my husband. My husband just…

Dear Madame Joy, I have suspected for a while that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I caught him a few lies about his whereabouts and a last month I actually saw him holding hands walking in to a restaurant with another woman. This woman was a mutual friend of ours. I was devastated. I…

Dear Madame Joy, I have been friends with this couple for years. I work with the husband and met his wife at one of our office party. We all hit it off and we have been friends ever since. One day he told me he was getting a divorce.I was shocked and I was also…

Dear Madame Joy, I realize that you are not the typical advice columnist so I feel comfortable asking you this question.I noticed you use a lot of flowers for your column, so I feel you are a kindred spirit.  My name is Joy and I love gardening. I own a home and my dream house has a…

Dear Madame Joy, I have this friend and every time she buys something or gets something, especially if it’s expensive. She feels this need to call me and tell me all about it. She is single has no children and she is always trying to get me to buy one of whatever her latest find…

Dear Madame Joy, I am turning 40 next month and I am having a hard time dealing with it. I’m not where I expected to be at this point in my life and it is really depressing. I’m not saying that I have not accomplish anything but it just seems that my friends all seem to…