Dear Madame Joy,
I’ve been married for 3 years and I am very much in love my husband. The issue is that one of his friends keeps hitting on me. He makes suggestive comments to me all the time. He’s even made a couple of these comments in front of my husband. My husband just brushed it off as a joke. Madame Joy, how do I get him to stop? His comments makes me very uncomfortable and I don’t know that to do.
Too Friendly.
Dear Too Friendly!
Thank you
The fact that you say he “keeps hitting on me”, means that you never shut his ass down. You must want de man too, why else you asking for advice. Why you even asking a question? It shouldn’t even be a question. You have a case of iwonderifthegrassgreenerontheotherside syndrome or what? It’s in my book: Syndromes the Government Hiding from You. Chapter 5: Syndromes the Government Hiding from You. Read it!!! Available on Amazonia.
Your husband think is just joke when he friend make comments about/to you? He need to watch his ass with dat friend. Your husband need a buss ass. What man laugh when somebody make a comment about his wife, joke or no joke? Eh? What man? He is not a man. LEAVE HIM AND LEAVE HIM NOW! Jus sayin’.
****disclainer:But when you leave him and think you make a mistake, is your fault eh. I just giving an opinion. I mean is the right one but… is on you! Jus Sayin!
You chuppid, yuh husband chuppid. I hope allyuh doh have no children because I doh want dem to be chuppid too.
Maybe something missing in yuh love life. My good friend Dr. Ruth would suggest that you buy yuh husband some Viagra and get allyuh groove on.
Allyuh know I doh like to gossip eh but… I have dis friend right and she was married to this man right but she husband friend had the hots fuh she and she never stop him from making he comments and she husband thought it was funny too. Next ting you know I hear the husband leave she, why because she succumbed to temptation that is lust and go with she husband friend an he find out he wasn’t laughing then though.
So wha she get from dat? Well, not only did she get screwed literally (hopefully it was a good one), she also get screwed financially too because she make more money than she husband so she get hit with alimony and she lose half ah she investments and on top of that the man she cheat with move on. Greener pastures.
Because yuh married doh mean that yuh eyes doh work anymore. You will be attracted to other men and he attracted to other women. It’s normal to be curious but let me tell you about curiosity. Before curiosity kill the cat, it does take half ah everyting eh! Half yuh money, half yuh house, half yuh children a half yuh life. And den yuh does want to dead! You better think and think hard. It will be like Umfufu: “Eddie I want half!!!”
How do you get him to stop? I’ll give you two simple choices:
1) The next time he tell you something, make him know you not **^%% interested and let it be known loud and make sure that idiot husband hear you too. Let him know if you need to talk, you already have a man to talk to, yuh doh need to call him to talk. Tell him you doh want to have his baby. Yuh married one aready.
2) This one will probably work faster. Make sure you do this within view of your husband, When the man start talking to you lean over and answer him in a hushed tone, even smile a little. He make a comment around your husband, blush a little and just touch his arm and tell him how funny he is. I bet you after the second time, it will be the last time your husband invite him to the house. The best part about this is that yuh husband cyah say nothing because guess what? He say his friend was only joking.
Hopefully that will stop the weasel from coming around.
p.s. You really need to slap that man eh. Jus Saying!!!
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Madame Joy
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Remember, dem people who try to get in your relationship, just jealous and when they ruin yours they move on. Then you are the only one to blame!!