Dear Madame Joy,

I work at a relatively large company. There is a woman that everyone at works seems to gets along with. The thing is, I don’t like her.  She’s never really done anything to me but I just don’t like her. I don’t want to see her, I don’t want to talk to her, I don’t want to be around her. I feel horrible about it because like I said, she has never done  anything to me. I do everything I can to avoid her but for some reason she’s not getting the hint. What’s even stranger is that she just seems to love me. We don’t work in the same department but we keep running into each other on a regular basis.

Madame Joy, is here a nice way for me to get her to stay away from you. I’m sure that eventually I will get over whatever it is that bugs me about her but she just won’t stay away from me.

Wanna Unfriend

Dear Wanna Unfriend,

Thank you!

Nope!!! There’s no nice way to say it, and Yes she bumping into you on purpose. That cannot be coincidence. Here’s the thing, you see, she don’t really like you either. She just knows that you don’t like her and she’s trying to show you that you should.

You can do what my sister did. My sister had the same problem. There was a woman she really did not like. Like you, the woman never did anything to her, she just did not like here. One day, she decided she had enough. She took the woman aside and very nicely said “I’m sorry, I don’t mean to hurt your feelings but I don’t like you. I would really appreciate it if you would just leave me alone.” The woman was hurt of course but the point was made.

Now after you very sweetly make your statement and she tells you a thing of two, you will realize exactly why you did not like her. See,  obviously there was a reason and she just proved it.

Once that is done, it will bring peace to the universe.  Let’s all sit and meditate on that. uuuuummmmmmmmmm!!!!!

Follow these simple steps and you too will attain happiness and clarity.

p.s: There is no law that says you have to like everybody. It is statistically impossible. If anybody tells you they do, you better be careful. Don’t let them walk behind you. You’re looking at a potential serial killer. Just saying!

Thank you for selecting us as your emotional crisis advisor. We are here for you!

Madame Joy

 

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