Today on Deciphering Inspirational Messages (D.I.M). We would like to address the futility of arguing wit chuppidity. Read that quote an read it well. 
Alluh read it? Good, read it again!

Allyuh  done start the New Year with ah Happy New You. Hopefully yuh keep it up! Yuh do yuh mental and physical spring cleaning, so add dis little factoid to yuh mental clense as ah reminder tuh stay strong. Doh let dem people perplex yuh intellect!

Simply put, yuh have to accept de fact dat some people just chuppid and cyah be helped! Dey just plain chuppid an yuh cyah fix chuppid.

Some ah we have a disease where we try to help everybody. STOP IT! Yuh trying to explain something and it end up in ah argument. Doh do dat no more! Arguing wit dem does only give dem power and frustrate your ass!  Yuh jus adding fuel tuh dey fire.
If yuh doh know how tuh stop yuhself from getting into it wit dem people, leh meh give yuh ah little example.

Ah have this friend right (me) an dis friend have children right and when de chillren was younger dey use tuh ask for every toy dey see on TV. As a responsible parent it was meh job tuh bash dey hopes of ever getting dat toy, cause yuh know if yuh give in tuh one, dat is it! So even though “No” is a complete sentence, these little gangas just didn want tuh hear it, so de “discussion” start and dat “discussion” often end wit me asking “why de ass I decide tuh have children to frustrate me so?” But yuh know dey just too cute and dey does force yuh tuh love dem! it all part ah the Kool-Aid, allyuh done know dat cuteness is ah conspiracy. Jus Sayin!
Yeah, so anyways, ah decide to try ah new tactic. When dey ask fuh de toy, I start saying “Yes”. Guess wha happen, when dey hear me say “Yes”, argument. Dey gone about dey business and it have peace in de valley once again(fuh a little while anyways), so de next time yuh go out with dem dey done forget about dat toy. **** see note.

Dis is how yuh have tuh treat dem people an dem. Yuh have tuh treat them like children who doh know no better. Do waste yuh energy, doh aggravate yuhself, doh let yuh blood pressure rise.
If dey ignorant yuh have a chance of educating dem but lord have mercy, CHUPPID is another story altogether. Yuh cyah fix chuppid! Yuh cyah understand chuppid! Doh let dem draw yuh into it.

**** Caution people: Jus like de movies, this is ah age appropriate thing eh. When yuh childen old enough tuh remember what yuh say when allyuh go out, it doh work no more. yuh have to stop saying yes and just deal wit de harassment that de “NO” does bring !

So on this D.I.M day, learn how to say “Woosah!” breathe in, breath out! Gyul, I ain’t gon lie,  some ah allyuh might need tuh take up meditation tuh get through it.

Let me leave you with the words of the wise one, Obi Wan Kenobi. 
Joyspirations© Daily Advice:
Who is more foolish? The fool or the fool who follows him? 

Madame Joy – For That Joy, Joy, Joy, Joy Down In Your Heart!