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Recently one of my co-workers took me to HR because I complimented her on her appearance. In her complaint she said my comment made her fell uncomfortable and would like me to refrain from any future comments. After 15 years at my company, I was written up because I told a beautiful woman that she looked beautiful. I will admit that it was not the first time I complimented her on how she looked but I never meant it as anything but a complement. I thought that she would appreciate knowing that she looked good.
Madame Joy how do I make her more comfortable around me without offending her?
Politically speaking
Dear politically speaking
Thank you!
Boy you have to be dotish! The woman take your ass to HR and you still wondering what you need to do to make her more comfortable around you? Apparently you never meet Captain Obvious! It called “STAY AWAY!!! You know like when you walk into a horror movie and you hear a voice that say “Get out!!!”, well heed my words and “STAY AWAY!!!” Doh keep going cause you might get some appendage cut off.
Allyuh know I doh gossip eh. I have this friend right and he have this friend right and this friend compliment this woman at dey workplace and she take the man to HR. The man almost lose he job because he compliment a woman that dress like she looking for attention. The man was traumatize, never even look at the woman again. He would change direction if she walking towards him. Supposedly the man is a quiet guy. Always smiling and he couldn’t understand why she take him to HR just for a compliment. So all ah dat mean, Shut up, Just Shut up , Shut up!
As a side note, allyuh have to watch them quite ones eh. Still waters run deep!!! Is dem that does turn out to be all kinda serial killers eh. Jus Sayin!
The woman think that you is a perverted stalker that always ogling her. You yuhself say is not the first time you compliment her. Just, shut up and leave the woman alone!!! She take you to HR because she doh want to have anything to do with you. Ah mean it could also be that she was having a bad day that day and you were just the outlet. If dat is the case then, it suck to be you boy!
What I do understand is that we dress to appeal to the opposite sex but now a days you tell a woman she look good and yuh could lose yuh job. Now I not talking about the obvious perverts in the work place eh people, so calm down. Dem people yuh should ‘accidently” trip while yuh walking with them, so do write meh about nuting. As I do not condone vionelce, I would suggest tripping up the stairs as it less likely to be letal.
Back to you, doh, look at she, doh talk tuh she. If you have to deal with she, then do it by email. Any kind of interaction, make sure you have a third party. If she come and talk tuh you, walk pass you or even attempt to breath the same air in you vicinity, jus have a spasm every time she come close. Make it look like you allergic to she. You doh want none a dat! Political correctness could work fuh you too, get them to move you if yuh too close to she. jus go an tell yuh boss that after what happen you doh feel comfortable next to she, let them move yuh!
Follow these simple steps and you too will attain happiness and clarity.
p.s:Leave the damn woman alone! Just look from afar. Aaammm.. not that “discrete gawking look” that men seem to think they have mastered but really, they haven’t. Jus Sayin!
Madame Joy
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Don’t wear a short flared skirt on a windy day!!!
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