Dear Madame Joy,
My son has been dating a young woman for the past 5 years and we do not get along. Even though Im only trying to help She gets upset when I make simple suggestions to her. She gets upset when I ask my son to do anything for me. She even gets upset when he calls me. Sometimes, I can actually hear her in the back ground. It has gotten to the point where my son only calls me when he is out of the house. I tried telling my son that she is not the woman for him but he always defends her. How do I get him to understand that he needs to move on and find someone else who is worth his time?
Mama Sita.
Dear Mama Sita,
Thank You!
This is a psychological conundrum that we in the psychology world call “The feminine cock psychosis”. Dat is when you got 2 females trying to stake their claim on one poor little grown up chicken. Yes, is a real thing! Read my book, The Feminine Cock Psychosis – Woman… the chicken became a rooster let him fly!
One of the most common symptom, that’s right, mothers that doh acknowledge they blasted sons are no longer boys but men. You know like Boys to Men… get it??? Yeah ok, I know I,funny…
So yuh offering simple suggestions eh? I guess it will all depend on how “simply” you offer your suggestions, doesn’t it.
Woman, the problem is not the girl. You is the problem. The question you should be asking yuh son is why he with this woman for 5 years and he doh married she. In my expertise I notice that good men tend to hook up and stay with the most miserablest of women.(yes Tulip, is ah word)
Now… I will be the first to acknowledge that some of these blasted women out there just plain wretched, however, the fact that your son still around mean that he like it. Doh blame the girl if yuh son chupid!. Is he who staying with she. He will move on when and if he good and ready. An yuh know, if he staying around, it mus have something he like eh, nudge, nudge, wink, wink! Jus’ Sayin’
Yuh could also jus buy some Old Spice because it seems that that is what would make a man out of your son. Jus Google it.
p.s. as much as I support the young woman’s right to sink her claws into her man: I do have a son an no heifer is gonna come and tell me when I can and cannot call my chile. Is my son, so backoff! Just Saying!
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Have A Tremendous Thursday!!
Madame Joy
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